I could go on and on through mundane and boring details- but the long story short is that I started to feel this overwhelming resentment of “being the one” who has to hold everything there is to worry about.
Whether you’re a mom, or the person who runs your household, or any kind of boss or business owner then I’m sure you can relate to that frustration. It’s exhausting to be the one who takes every little big or small thing that needs to run in our lives, place them on your shoulders, and start to hope and pray that you can carry it all.
Will you be able to? Probably some of the time. Should you be carrying it all? Probably not.
Now there are times in our lives when lots is going on where it does come in handy to be able to write it all down on a big white board and figure out a great detailed plan of how to tackle all that’s ahead of you.
But as I really sit with this what I see very clearly is that putting all the stress on your own shoulder isn’t actually helping anyone, and it is also not executing a game plan. Instead it’s allowing fear to keep you from trusting anyone or anything else.